You can tell if it's misandry by replacing "men" with "black men" and seeing if it sounds obviously terrible

You can tell if it's misandry by replacing "men" with "black men" and seeing if it sounds obviously terrible 

For example: "It's okay to be afraid of men. They commit disproportionately more of the crime"

Try: "It's okay to be afraid of black men. They commit disproportionately more of the crime"

Does that sound obviously wrong and bad? 

Yeah. Duh.

Then it's also wrong to say about all men.